You're always wanting someone to change, is not it?
Mature people do not shake because of unkind comments of others.Occasionally people say things to test us and make comments like, "you do not work hard!" Or "you eat too much!" Or Sometimes these things are said out of envy, but often are said to cause a reaction. Whatever the reason, the best way to handle it is to smile and say nothing, or agree with the person. So the next time your neighbor sees you in your new car and say, "you do not work and almost nothing yet they pay you a fortune! ", simply smile and reply:" is not it wonderful? " You do not have to explain anything about their responsibilities and about the time that is "grating" at work. No need to justify. Just smile and let it go. Do not get upset. You will not gain anything arguing with your cousin, your sister, your neighbor or whoever ... When you meet people like that, agree with them in a natural way gently ... If you start trying to defend himself ... will be fried ... In a nutshell: only people who "think small" make nasty comments, and only people who also "think small" are offended. Be someone who "think big.
And that someone does not need to be specifically a person, includes up around the government, big corporations, taxes, bosses, teachers, parents, spouses, children, etc.. You do not propose to change, want others to change your life to be different. But if you really want change, you have to realize that they can only come from within. Changing means get rid of the feelings of isolation, abandonment, loneliness, pain, fear and suffering ... For starters you should believe that life is wonderful, everything is perfect and that is always going toward a greater good ... With this conviction, you can extract the best of all situations that present themselves ... Often, simply changing a bit your way of thinking, you can completely change a situation.therefore think of the change as an internal housecleaning, doing a little at a time, you end up with everything clean. And no need to finish this cleanup to get results, change a little bit when it is, you already begin to feel better ... For starters, think for a moment about what would change in your life. Then answer yourself if you are willing to work to achieve these changes. If you really want change, you will find all the information that can help you. You will realize, it is amazing how the Universe begins to help you when you are willing to change. It takes up to you what you need to: be a book, a recording, a teacher, a friend ... But for that to happen is you need to make the inner changes ... you change your way of thinking ... Do not wait, too, and everything becomes magically improve, rather it is common conditions worsen before improving. Do not disturb, is part of the process. , So do not be discouraged. Keep your statements; think of them as seeds you are planting.
Written by M.Ajmal khan.
Mature people do not shake because of unkind comments of others.Occasionally people say things to test us and make comments like, "you do not work hard!" Or "you eat too much!" Or Sometimes these things are said out of envy, but often are said to cause a reaction. Whatever the reason, the best way to handle it is to smile and say nothing, or agree with the person. So the next time your neighbor sees you in your new car and say, "you do not work and almost nothing yet they pay you a fortune! ", simply smile and reply:" is not it wonderful? " You do not have to explain anything about their responsibilities and about the time that is "grating" at work. No need to justify. Just smile and let it go. Do not get upset. You will not gain anything arguing with your cousin, your sister, your neighbor or whoever ... When you meet people like that, agree with them in a natural way gently ... If you start trying to defend himself ... will be fried ... In a nutshell: only people who "think small" make nasty comments, and only people who also "think small" are offended. Be someone who "think big.And that someone does not need to be specifically a person, includes up around the government, big corporations, taxes, bosses, teachers, parents, spouses, children, etc.. You do not propose to change, want others to change your life to be different. But if you really want change, you have to realize that they can only come from within. Changing means get rid of the feelings of isolation, abandonment, loneliness, pain, fear and suffering ... For starters you should believe that life is wonderful, everything is perfect and that is always going toward a greater good ... With this conviction, you can extract the best of all situations that present themselves ... Often, simply changing a bit your way of thinking, you can completely change a situation.therefore think of the change as an internal housecleaning, doing a little at a time, you end up with everything clean. And no need to finish this cleanup to get results, change a little bit when it is, you already begin to feel better ... For starters, think for a moment about what would change in your life. Then answer yourself if you are willing to work to achieve these changes. If you really want change, you will find all the information that can help you. You will realize, it is amazing how the Universe begins to help you when you are willing to change. It takes up to you what you need to: be a book, a recording, a teacher, a friend ... But for that to happen is you need to make the inner changes ... you change your way of thinking ... Do not wait, too, and everything becomes magically improve, rather it is common conditions worsen before improving. Do not disturb, is part of the process. , So do not be discouraged. Keep your statements; think of them as seeds you are planting.
Written by M.Ajmal khan.
No comments:
Post a Comment